I tend to always go with the feelings that feel right to me. I don't see much point in hiding things or changing myself, but I don't see much point in being unkind to people who have been nothing but kind to me.

[and honestly, wicked has. he'll respect her preference of being referred to as a different person because, sure. but it's pretty clear she remembers and is still responding to their prior conversations, just in a ruder tone. rudeness doesn't bother him, all of his friends are rude af.]