Hmm.

[they sound like they have a mild disagreement with this. not judgmental, just kind of a gentle 'not so sure about that one, friend.']

...It seems like you have a habit of offering your life for the people you care for. One of these days, someone's going to get mad at you for offering someone you already promised someone else.

[however.]

I would say it would be better if this had happened to nobody, while we're proposing things that didn't happen.