I just ask you to think what it means, to come into someone else's home, to tell them that you think you know a better way to treat that home than they do, and to suggest that if they don't change their mind to match yours, they lack trust in you.

[not harshly, but sternly.]

If you're going to ask me to change my mind about my home, I'm going to need something else from you, not that. I am not refusing to hear you, but I'm not being convinced, either.